Sunday, October 23, 2011

simpati?empati?

baru2 ni kite digemparkan dgn berita seorg kanak2 perempuan yg baru berusia 2 thn di langgar 2x oleh van and lorry di China..and more than 10 peoples just walk away x hiraukan the poor little girl..argh!!i feel like fainting..

when i saw 1st in the news,i was like,damn cruel those people!(yeah, u can repeat the thingy in you tube) link sini..budak tu kene gelak sekali dgn van, oh my Allah..betul2 atas perut..tayar depan skali,tayar blakang skali..and org Ca Ya Nun Alif ni buat x reti je??next dtg van kcik,lenyek kaki pulak..ya Allah,sedihnye..serius rasa nak nangis,.this is the cruel thing ever happen in children..


where's the empathy and sympathy of people nowadays?

sometimes,am wondering myself..am i lacking those stuff? sedih and takut jugak..tgh hr td,am visiting my neighbor masuk hospital coz ada complicataion from the appendicectomy he had done few month b4..my mother's expression was really terperanjat and scared and risau,those empathy face reveals for those thing happen to that boy.. ye lor,kene jahit and operate quite long jgak..am not really surprised and am maintaning my poker face sub-consciously..i was like,em,can't really express the 'true' face to see those thing like my mother, bcz ive seen that everyday in the hospital..

is it cruel?no,i mean,is it appropiate?

in med school,we were taught to maintain our face and not to show our kerut2 or muka kesian to the ptn,as we have to be professional. hence the ptn will feel not right to us. when the ptn see the confident dr's look at them, they will feel secure.
sblm ni, mmg byk kali sy ditegur..especially in paeds ward..ward knak2..kwn2 slalu tegur,my face cpat sgt berubah when look into the ptn..(and kdg2 sy xnak g skali dgn sorg classm8 yg ske tegur muka sy nih)..even sy cuba memaintainkan muka yg 'berhati kering'...huhu..susah jgak rpenye..

and sy risau,sy xde perasaan empati kpd ptn2..(esp sedara mara yg slalu tanya hal2 berkaitan perubatan).how i can answer their question with the appropriate look mcm muka org biasa yg menerima keadaan suatu musibah?


but the accident (not really accident pun!) happen in China really make me cries.




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