Sunday, July 24, 2011

kahwin part II

salam..
today is sunday, i feel good today=)
we have morning talk about fiqh puasa at Ikram's office and abes je talk tu,terus gi walimah my classmate aka Mohd Hafiz..teruja nak tgk pengantin..ye lor,hafiz is one of the good guy in our class before this..u can ask him anything, and he rarely say no to help u..baik kan?
so, yeah we did enjoy the food and stuff. dia buat di dewan precint 8 ..padahal rumah dia dekat Cheras..yep,perhaps dia saja wat kat putrajaya so that we all can come meriahkan majlis..kalau dia wat kat Cheras,susahkan for us to travel,dgn x mahir jalan nye lagi kan..sesat je la manjang~

well,i do like this walimah a lot.u want to know why?coz i can feel the 'barakah' inside it...
we arrived around 12.30 pm, and pengantin da duduk di meja santapan..sedang membaca doa oleh si pengerusi majlis..doa yg mendoakan agar pengantin sentiasa berbahagia di bwh redha Allah hingga ke akhirnya..insyaAllah..then, majlis mkn2 pun start..sambil tu,there was a group of boys, yeah our clasmate too, buat group band and they song few nasyeed and lagu suami istri lebih kurang mcm tu la..cool sbb the band is our classmate too!!

pas abes je diaorg nyanyi, music still on with lagu2 nasyeed and selawat..bahagia rasa hati..and around 1.15pm, emcee buat announcement waktu zohor da masuk, and pengantin will leaving us to have a break, most probably nak solat zohor dulu, and they will come back around 2pm..and berkumandang lah azan dlm dewan u..even there are chinese inside the hall, the beauty of slam can still be practice rite?


yeah, hafiz the hafiz Quran with her comel wife,Ainul (his x-skoolmate)
our classmate, Farid and the gang..thumbs up!

ho yeah...we left the hall around 1.30pm..belakang kitaorg tu ada pelamin.. gorgeousness sungguh!!!ada juga 2-3 tingkat kek belakang tu..perhaps at 2pm, pengantin will be on the stage to tangkap2 gambar and acara potong kek..

yep,tu saje cerita kawen yg menarik untuk dikongsi bersama..i do think if i can make my wedding like this..i mean,eat early with the guest, have a break for half and hour to solat Zohor, and gather back after 2pm..u wont miss anything rite?plus the selawat and nasyeed sepanjang majlis...superb!i like it~


well,i wanna share 2 cases of my friend..tajuk dia, X BAGI KAWEN..u can give ur opinion kat bawah sana k..

case 1: my close friend, a 30 year old single girl..she's one of my classmate too,really want to get married, tried hard to make friends with guys and what not..but her problem is,her mother didnt allowed her to get married, sebabnye,she's still studying!!kadang2 she shared her story with me, just to clear out her heart, with tears..one day, there is a mother of a man called her mother, when suddenly she heard the conversation over the phone..she know the guy's mother was asking for her, but then the mother asking her younger sister bout the thingy..i mean, my friend's mother ni divert the call to ask her younger sister..sedih weyh!!!
u know,she's 4 out of 6 siblings..sume da  kawen, except she and her youngest sister..even sister bwh dia pun dah kawen..sobz...how to settle when ur own mother didnt allowed u to get married even u r 30th?

case 2: my own friend jgak, a 26 yo girl, have a steady bf for nearly 3-4 years..but then, the bf is still studying, and not yet working..hem..dia nak kawen, coz she think at her age, she should get married...lgpun,dia dah ada calon, and at the guy's side, no problem at all..her problem is, most of her brothers didnt agree at all when she said she wants to get married=(
ye lor,she is the youngest among them, and need the brothers to jadi wali coz ayah da xde lagi..so,dia mng kene dengar ckp brothers dia yg sume dah kawen...hukz..

well,what's ur advices to both my friend ni?

2 comments:

whoami said...

case 1: lama lgi ke your fren tu nak abis study?kalo da nak abis..sruh sabar for a moment..Inshaallah the happiness will come to her...Redha ibu adalah redha Allah kan..kalo langgar nnti ,tak bhagia rumah tgga.

case 2:Most of the brothers pun akan fikir camtu..bkan ape kan..dorang xnak la adik dorang tu terbeban plak..by the way ,your fren tu da keje ke?tkot nnti tertggung laki pulak..her bf tu lama lgi ke nak abis?hold kejap kalo bleh kan..Inshaallah..

~syamim~ said...

whoami:
case 1: dia sama klas ngan sy..so,lebih kurang setahun jugak nak abes..yep,i always adviced her mcm tu..mungkin,mak dia syg sgt kat dia xnak bagi lepas kat sape2...huhu

case 2: my friend tu is my classmate, which is still studying, lg stahun jgak nak abes..her bf,am not sure bila nak abes..but then,both ada income from mara or ada la support depa ni..the point is,nape nak lambat2kan benda baik?btol x?