eiduladha 1432

assalamualaikum...

a very happy and delightful day..

hari raya aidiladha yg disambut pada 10,11,12 and 13 zulhijjah setiap thn, alhamdulillah, masih berkesempatan umtuk kite sambut pada thn ini..masih dpt merasai kemanisan silaturrahim antara keluarga, jiran tetangga dan sanak saudara..masih dpt merasai dan memperingati kisah silam kasih syg demi Allah nabi ibrahim, dan isteri dan juga nabi ismail..keikhlasan dari pengorbanan yg luar biasa...kemahuan Allah menjadi puncaknya...

it can be our reflection, isn't it?
once u let go your attachment (u name it, ur love one,ur fav things, ur everything) just for Allah, what u love is given back to u--> now in purer, a better form..
so let us asked ourselves in these beautiful days of sacrifice, which attachments do we need to slaughter?

disunatkan bertakbir irama merdu itu 3 hari berturut2..i feel love..i can't wait to be one of the guest in Meqah..when is it?im praying for it..i miss it..

yesterday when i watched takbir raya kat tv, i feel touched with the meaning..so here,am attached in my blog so i won't forget the beautiful meaning inside it.. hopefully, when we bertakbir, we feel also the meaning of it..

love is sacrifice..

sacrifice u love most..
be it everything..
mainly for Allah..

que b4 u get married

yeah, i know some of u might have some 'list' or 'criteria' to choose ur spouse later in ur life...or maybe not later, and u are still searching..zzzz...

well, b4 u get  involve in love, or senang crite b4 u nak berkenalan dgn the opposite sex, which is mestilah berkawan dan matlamat akhirnya perkahwinan,u shud ask him@ her with few question in medical view of point, yeah for ur own benefit jgak..islamic view which are 4 criteria to pilih pasangan,sume da lpas kan..ok,here we go:

1. are u smoker?
2. jom gi buat HIV test dulu
3. jom gi check Thallesemia

jeng2..
x scary pun soalan2 ni..but yeah,for girls, if u want to be 'friend' with guys,pilih la yg x merokok..coz smoker will harm u and ur future family..i bet that..x percaya?jom dtg spital...oh yeah,for guys also,ve to ask the girl weather she's smoking or not..girls nowadays hard to believe u know..trend remaja pmpn mrokok smakin mningkat..scary!!i think,kat skola even kat skola rendah, the guru2 yg berdedikasi mestilah selalu memberi nasihat kat anak  murid mende2 simple mcmni..its look simple,yet xramai guru buat.btol x?kalo guru math,masuk klas pung pang pung pang ajar math,x sentuh pun bab social life ni..huhu..maybe guru2 boleh amik masa sikit nasihatkan anak murid, for our own good future jgak..pemuda sekarang mencerminkan negara in the future..

next,HIV test ni wajeeebbbbb la sgt2 (alhamdulillah,kementerian kesihatan da wajibkan sblm kahwin kan)...1st day in IM ward today i got HIV ptn..the husband is an ex-drug user..intravenous drug abuse (IVDU) waktu muda2 dulu..kiteorg x amik history kat ptn sbb wife dia ada sama (and the nurse da btau toksah soal dpn wife sal IVDU), sbb wife x tahu..and the husband was postive HIV 10 years ago,yet dia tahu dia HIV and get married to an innocent female which xtahu dia juga da dpt HIV itu by now..so sad=(
and know what, org pmpn akan mninggal dahulu b4 the male after dia dpt HIV.why?u can email me for the answer..hehe...yup,ada kene mengena dgn cervical cancer..
so,moral valuenye, test dulu ur spouse dulu b4 kawen ok?walaupun muka dia innocent je skrg,perangai skrg x sama mcm zaman muda2 dulu..we will never know that..

last but not least, Thallesemia test..if u are a carrier, pilih la pasangan yg xde trait Thall ni..if u are a carrier, and unfortunately ur spouse pun carrier,alamatnye, your children will suffer later in their life..sebab they have to transfuse blood regularly which is really err....so,baik gi cek dulu ok?
if he/she is carrier yet u are normal,so,proceed je,no worries=)

ok,tu je nak share arini..aigooo...IM sgttt la membuatkan sy hypoglycemic..tett

by the way, i like this song when i 1st heard it..nice song, aishiteru by zivilia=)

ciri2 suami yg baik

sumone post in the fb..and,let us share it together=)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gj9uAul2RQ4&feature=related


i wrote the 'kakinota' ini while listening to his tazkirah..


pilih laki2 begini:
1. pilih lah suami yg faham agama
2. mempunyai akal yg sempurna , bukan akal yg pendek, hormat org tua
3. baik perangai, x garang, garang bertempat,rajen senyum, luas fikiran
4. suami yg tahu menyelesaikan masalah istri dgn kebijaksanaan (gunakan akal,psikologi)

doa elak jin syaitan, elak binatang berbiza,dan penyakit, dan pnyakit sihir pukau :
 au'zubikalimatillahi attammmaah, mingkullisyaito nin wahammmmah, waminkulli ainin lammah
(aku berlindung dgn kalimah2 Allah, drpd segala kjhatan syaitan dan kuncu2 nya,dan drpd kjhatan mata2 hasad yg memberi)


i think,its vise versa..if u are a girl like me,tgk2 criteria di atas..if u are a man,then tukar je suami itu kpd istri..well,let us a be like what it stated in the criteria..=)

jom kite zikir selalu=)

Rasullah SAW bersabda:"Orang yang berzikir kepada Allah ditengah-tengah orang yang lalai ibarat sebuah pepohonan yang hijau ditengah-tengah pepohonan yang kering." 

saya dan awak

Tatkala seorang jejaka memandang cermin, apa yang selalu difikirkan adalah "handsome kah aku?", "adakah otot-otot aku semantap Arnold Schwarzenegger?" dan seumpamanya. (ok,that's 4 you)

Tatkala seorg gadis memandang cermin dimana2 sahaja, apa yang selalu difikirkan adalah,'comel x tudung aku rini?baju ni ok x nak pakai gi kelas?'ada ala2 wardina x rupa aku rini?'dan seumpanya...(ok,i think that's for me)

Apa kata selepas ini, kita bertanyakan soalan berikut ketika memandang cermin :

1. Adakah aku sentiasa taat kepada Allah dan Rasullulah?

2. Adakah jihad Fisabilillah adalah matlamat dan program hidup aku?                          

3. Adakah mati syahid adalah cita-cita hidup tertinggi aku?

4. Selama ini, adakah aku sabar dalam menghadapi ujian dan cabaran daripada Allah?

5. Ikhlaskah aku dalam beramal?

6. Adakah kampung akhirat menjadi tujuan utama hidupku?

7. Takutkah aku kepada ujian Allah dan ancaman-Nya?

8. Adakah aku selalu memohon ampun atas segala dosa-dosaku?

9. Adakah aku zuhud dengan dunia tetapi tidak meninggalkannya?

10. Adakah solat malam menjadi kebiasaanku?

11. Adakah aku bertawakal kepada Allah atau aku kerap mengeluh?

12. Adakah aku kerap memberikan infaq di waktu senang mahupun sempit?

13. Berusahakah aku untuk menerapkan nilai kasih sayang sesama mukmin dan ukhwah di antara mereka?

14. Kuatkah aku amar maaruf dan nahi munkar?

15. Adakah aku sangat kuat memegang amanah, janji dan kerahsiaan?

16. Adakah aku seorang pemaaf?

Andai jawapan kepada persoalan-persoalan di atas adalah positif belaka, maka anda memiliki ciri-ciri lelaki soleh idaman wanita!

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2 perkataan yg ringan tp berat

i was listening to the radio when suddenly one of the ustaz give this teka teki...

que:
what are the 2 words, easy to say but very heavy to do?

ans:
subhanallah wa bihamdihi...
subhanallah hil'azim...


senang kan nak sebut?
senang x nak amalkan?

berat tau pahala kite dapat...
Allah pun suka..
so,jgn berat2 nak amalkan..

time tgh2 jem dlm kete tu,instead of mengelamun,u can practice this..moga kite makin rapat dgn Dia =)

p/s: selamat berpuasa sunat 6 semua...

a reflection to myself

this morning, when my fren drove all the way to HKL,and i just sit quietly at the back, i read this small mathurat..nk baca kat umah,mmg x sempat,kua umah awal bangat,jalan jem = kl kan...zikir dlm mathurat ni adalah zikir2 yg Rasullah amalkan,and the point is,i wanna share what i feel when i  read the terjemahan..


1. Aku telah rela dgn Allah sbg Tuhanku,dan islam sbg agamaku,dan Muhammad sbg nabi dan rasulku..
2. Aku berlindung pd kalimat Allah yg sempur, dari kejahatan apa-apa yg diciptakan
3. Aku berlindung padaMu dari rasa sedih dan gelisah, dan aku berlindung padaMu dari sifat pengecut dan bakhil, dan aku berlindung dariMu dari cengkaman hutang dan penindasan orang, 
4. allahumma, engkau adalah tuhanku, tidak ada tuhan selain engkau, Engkau yg menciptakan dan aku abdiMu,dan aku berada dlm perjanjian dgnMu. ikrar kpdMu, yg akan kulaksanakan dgn segala kemampuanku, dan aku berlindung padaMu, dr kejahatan apa2 yg telah aku lakukan, aku mengakui dengan sebenar2 nikmatMu kpsku, dan aku mengakui dosaku, maka ampunilah aku, kerana tidak ada yg boleh mengampuni dosa dosaku selain engkau..

actually there's a lot..but this few meaning really hit my heart..yeah,perhaps me myself has been neglect certain things in my life...in this 2-3 weeks, ive been not in the state of any moods = im feeling-less..even my long standing friends asked me,why im being so cold?heh

when i read those meaning, i know, Allah is always there for me..He's the one who knows me..He's the one who i can cry, ask for help and story everything..

im sorry to those who i neglect for a long time..i didnt mean it..i need time and space for myself to adjust back my life..

destinasi cinta

well2,majlis maulidurrasul baru je selesai di kolej kami selasa hari tu.monday's night,there was a film for tontonan umum,sirah sjrh rasullah,which i didnt get enaugh energy to drive back to putra from hkl just to watch the movie where u can just download from tenet..
and on the 2nd day,it was a special talk from ust fatimah sharha (salah eja ni), after isyak,and i was kindda excited to hear ceramah2 ni..esp berkaitan rasullah..my expectation was totally wrong to this educated ust as the talk was realllllyyyyy inspiring, i mean,bukan crmah biasa..she had slide,video,songs,and what not..

little bit bout her..currently 27 y.o,married to a dr,ve one daughter 3 y.o,n i think she's pregnant as the belly quite kedepan eventhough she's wearing tudung  labuh..(stalk x tahan).y she's very educated?from kuzsa,she further studied to ukm in fiqh (oh,am sorry,dunno the panjang2 nama kos dia),degree,sambung to syria master, and balik msia,sambung phd at uia..currently lecturing at uia..huhu..perfect!

2 learning issue i get from her that tuesday night...

1. ada 3 peringkat cinta..cita teragung is absolutely to our creator,Allah sbt..the second peringkat is love to our parents,siblings,relatives,friends,houses,money and stuff yg milik kita totally..and paling bawah skali is cinta ke2 yg melebihi cinta pertama..get what i mean?
sirah: dimana abdullah yg berkahwin dgn atikah, disuruh oleh bapanya menceraikn atikah krn x ke masjid as usual to perform solah.dia melebihkan istri yg sah dr brjemaah di masjid..hukz..abdullah pun ikut arahan bapanya(abu bakar),and he took it as a pengajaran to dri sendiri..but then,after few moment, abu bakar kasihan melihat abdullah ni duk teringat rindu kat istri dia..tu yg rujuk semula..see?pengajaran kisah sahabat nabi,cinta kpd istri yg sah melebihi cinta kpd Allah..

2. if u wanna ur totally love (i mean,ur totally love from hubby or wife), u have to b patient as muslim (bg yg blom kawen la).the analogy brought by ust farha is very simple..just imagine u r fasting today..ada x org yg saje2 je letak mknn kat mulut dia,acah2 nak mkn?saje letak cawan kat bibir,gaya nak minum?hem,kalo terlajak,boleh je tertelan and batal puasa terus..if u can be patient,ignore those food,bila berbuka nanti,nikmat x rasanya usaha menahan diri sepanjang hari?nikmat kan?

so,pandai2 la pk,mls nak elaborate..hehe

it's late already..looking forward for tomorrow's activity...
owh psy posing...=p